Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Six Signs She's Thinking Of Cheating

First, let me defend the sisterhood by saying, many, many women don't cheat. Especially when they're in happy relationships. If they're really into a guy, they are loyal-from-first-kiss. Faithfulness is hardwired into the female circuitry, like your need to cuddle and to buy shoes.

Now, the unfortunate exception: Some do. Okay, a lot do: The incidence of extramarital intercourse for women is 25 percent, and the estimate of single women who've cheated is even higher. And if a woman is going to cheat, there are surprisingly specific times when she's likely to do it.

Pay attention, because even if you're sure your woman would never stray, the urge may pop up at one of these times. Then put this advice to work, because the follow-through doesn't have to happen.

She's Turning 25 or 30 or 35 or . . .

Decade and half-decade birthdays trigger navel-gazing-figuratively, and perhaps literally. A woman asks herself, "What have I been doing for the past 5 years?" (hopefully she likes the answer)

"She'll think deeply about her love life and its direction, and if it's not going the way she planned, she might jump at the chance to correct it with an affair," says Don-David Lusterman, Ph.D., a psychologist and the author of Infidelity: A Survival Guide.

The incidence of birthday cheating triples in women who report being in unhappy relationships, according to a survey by

The plan: Be there.
There are 2 nights when every straight woman wants a man in her bed: New Year's Eve and her birthday. Leave her solo and you're giving her permission—and reason—to cheat. And remember, birthday sex is about the birthday girl. Presents are good, too. Especially jewelry.
Do What You Do      Hallelujah Hollaback      ...blackhercules21...

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